A deeply sick society.
We make men without chests and expect of them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked find traitors in our midsts. We castrate and bid the geldings be fruitful.
Let's start with a couple of basics.
You were born a man, or a woman. We all were, and you can't change that. If you are a man, no amount of surgery or drugs is going to make you bear life and bear all the consequences of the same, from hormonal storms on a monthly basis, to monthly blood loss, to a massive change of life, mid life.
Thinking that you can, and even wanting to makes you deeply mentally ill.
And a society that tolerates that attempt, is deeply sick.
An account I follow on Twitter notes the following:
22 years old Was 17 years old when Covid hitI wonder when he started going down the trans path
It's worth asking that question, and we'll touch on it in a moment.
Part I.
Robert Westman, mentally ill young man, raged against the reality of life that had tolerated his perverted molestation of himself and lashed out against the existential nature that doomed his molestation to complete failure, and a deeply sick society now will wonder why. Moreover, even his final act shows how deeply he failed in his effort. Women nearly never resort to mass violence in frustration.
That's a male thing.
And so we start, again by finding myself linking back to some old threads on this blog, unfortunately. This was the first time I tackled this topic.
Lex Anteinternet: Peculiarized violence and American society. Looki...: Because of the horrific senseless tragedy in Newton Connecticut, every pundit and commentator in the US is writing on the topic of what cau...
And I did again here:
Lex Anteinternet: You Heard It Here First: Peculiarized violence an...: (Note. This is a post I thought I'd posted back in November. Apparently not, I found it in my drafts, incomplete. So I'm posting...
The first time was intended to be the magnum opus on this, and indeed it likely still is. It's still worth reading:
Peculiarized violence and American society. Looking at root causes, and not instrumentalities.
Peculiarized violence and American society. Looking at root causes, and not instrumentalities.
And on that, I'm going right to this:
And also this:
Maybe the standard was destroyed
No place to go, and the lessons of the basement and entertainment.
All of that is still valid, and in particular, I think, we need to consider again:
Over the coming days and weeks pundits will ponder this event, and mostly spout out blather. The explanation here may have deeply disturbing aspects to it, but the underlying root of it is not that complicated. Robert Westman fell into the trap that ensnares some of the young in our society and hoped to completely change his nature by changing the outward morphology of his nature. He was mentally ill.
A just society treats compassionately the mentally ill.
We do not live in a just society.
By and large, we just turn the mentally ill out into the street to allow their afflictions to grow worse until those afflictions kill them. Go to any big city and you'll see the deranged and deeply addicted out in the street. This is not a kindness.
Gender Dysphoria is a different type of mental illness, but that's what it is.2
And its deeply delusional.
To put it bluntly to the point of being crude, no man, no matter what they attempt to do, is going to bear children and have the risk of bearing children, bleed monthly, and be subject to the hormonal storms that real women are subject to. And, frankly, men generally become subject to some, if varying, degrees of drives that are constant and relenting, and never abate.3
No woman, no matter what she attempts to do, is going to hit a certain age in their teens have their minds turn to women almost constantly, as men do, in a way that women do not understand, and frankly do not experience the opposite of themselves.
Indeed, no man really wants to be a woman, or vice versa. What those engaging in an attempt to pass through a gender barrier seek is something else, and what that more often than not in the case of men likely is to drop out of the heavy male burdens in an age in which it increasingly difficult to meet them. In spite of everything in the modern world, women remain conceived of as more protected, and therefore not as subject to failure for not meeting societal expectations.
Being a man has never been easy.
In the days of my youth, I was told what it means to be a man
And now I've reached that age
I've tried to do all those things the best I can
No matter how I try, I find my way into the same old jam
Good Times, Bad Times, by Led Zeppelin.
I don't think lectures on what it means to be a man occur anymore. I know that I've never delivered one, but I didn't need one to be delivered either. The examples were clearly around me, including all the duties that entailed. We knew, growing up, that good men didn't abandon their families, and provided for their families, and were expected to protect women to the point of their own deaths. Women weren't expected to protect men, at all.
Some men have always sought to escape their obligations, of course, and we all know or new those who did. Most aged into disrepute over time. Others got their acts together.
You can’t be a man at night if you are a boy all day long.
Rev. Wellington Boone.
And some have always descended into madness. But society didn't tolerate it, and it shouldn't have to.
So what do we know about Westman?
Not that much, but what we do know is revealing:
- He killed himself after his cowardly murders.
- He'd developed an inclination towards violence.4
- He once attended the Catholic school whose students he attacked, leaving in 2017 at the end of Middle School.
- He started identifying as a female in 2019, age 17, and his mother signed the petition to change his name.5
- After middle school attended a charter school and then the all-boys school, Saint Thomas Academy, which is a Catholic military school. 6
- An uncle said he barely knew him.7
- His parents were divorced when he was 13.
- He worked at a cannabis dispensary, but was a poor employee.8
What can we tell from this?
Maybe nothing at all, but the keys are that in spite of they're being Catholic, his parents divorced, and his mother thereafter tolerated to some degree his drift into delusion, while at the same time there's evidence they were trying to correct it. After school, he drifted into drugs, which is what marijuana is.
Blame the parents? Well, that would be too simple. But societal tolerance of divorce and transgender delusion is fostering all sorts of societal ills.
It's notable that he struck out at a childhood school. That may be all the more his violence relates, but probably not. His mother had worked there. He was likely striking out at her too. And he was striking out an institution that doesn't accept that you can change your existential nature, because you cannot. He likely was fully aware of that, which is why he acted out with rage at it, and then killed himself.
There may, frankly, be an added element to this, although only recently have people in the secular world, such as Ezra Klein, began to discuss it. Westman may have been possessed.
Members of the American Civil Religion don't like to discuss this at all, and frankly many conventional Christians do not either. Atheist and near atheist won't acknowledge it all, of course. But Westman's flirting with perverting nature may have frankly lead him into a really dark place, and not just in the conventional sense.
Part 2. What should we do?
Well, what will be done is nothing. Something should, however, be done.
The topic of gun control will come up, which brings us back to this:
You Heard It Here First: Peculiarized violence and American society. It Wasn't The Guns That Changed, We Changed (a post that does and doesn't go where you think it is)
We're going to hear, from more educated quarters defending the Second Amendment, that firearms have not really changed all that much over the years, society has. This is completely true.
But we're at the point now that we need to acknowledge that society has changed. And that means a real effort to keep firearms out of the hands of the mentally ill needs to be undertaken.
When the Constitution was written, Americans were overwhelmingly rural. Agrarianism was the norm everywhere. People generally lived in a family dwelling that included everyone from infants to the elderly. Normally the entire community in which a person lived was of one religion, and everyone participated in religious life to some degree. Even communities that had more than one religion represented, still had everyone being members of a faith. Divorce was not at all common, and in certain communities not tolerated whatsoever.9
Westman was mentally ill. Transgenderism is a mental illness. He was a drug user. Cannabis is a drug.
In 1789 the mentally ill, if incapable of functioning, would have been taken care of at home by their families. Transgenderism would not have been conceived of and not tolerated. Alcohol was in heavy use. Marijuana was not. The plethora of narcotics now in circulation were not conceived of.
Yes, this will sound extreme. Am I saying that because a tiny number of transgendered might resort to violence they shouldn't own guns? Yes, maybe in a society that simply chooses to tolerate mental illness, that's what I'm saying, although it also strikes me that the people who have gone down this deluded path might be amongst those most needing firearms for self protection. So, not really. I am saying that attention needs to be focused on their mental state.
Am I saying that marijuana users shouldn't own guns? Yes, that is also what I'm saying, along with other chronic users of drugs, legal and illegal.
And as we choose to simply ignore mental illness, perhaps the time has come to see if a would be gun owners is mentally stable and societally responsible before allowing them to own guns. People in chronic debt, with violent behavior, with unacknowledged children in need shouldn't be owning firearms.
Of note, at the time the Second Amendment was written, none of these things was easily tolerated.
Part 3. Getting more extreme.
Knowing that none of this will occur, I'll go there anyhow.
Societal tolerance of some species of mental illness should just end. There shouldn't be homeless drug addicts on the street and gender reassignment surgery and drugs should be flat out illegal.
For that matter, in the nature of extreme, plastic surgery for cosmetic reasons should be banned. Your nose and boobs are fine the way they are, leave them alone.
No fault divorce should end, and for that matter people who have children should be deemed married by the state, with all the duties that implies. Multiple children by multiple partners should be regarded as engaging in polygamy, which should still be regarded as illegal.
Love between man and woman cannot be built without sacrifices and self-denial. It is the duty of every man to uphold the dignity of every woman.
St. John Paul II.
Yes, that's rough.
Life is tough for all of us. Ignoring that fact makes it harder on all of us.
Part 4. Doesn't this all play into Dementia Don and his Sycophantic Twatwaffles?
Unfortunately, it does. I fear that this may prove to be the Trump Administration's Reichstag moment.
Indeed, this event is like a gift to people like Stephen Miller who will now assert that this came about due to the liberal policies of Minneapolis, and moreover, as proof that outright attacks on transgendered are needed, the same way the Nazis asserted that dictatorship was necessary in Germany after the Reichstag fire.
Isn't that what' I'm stating?
I am not.
I think we need to address mental illness as a mental illness, and do what we can to treat it. And rather obviously, what I've stated above doesn't square with Second Amendment hardcore advocates.
And as part of that, we need to get back to acknowledging that the mentally ill are mentally ill, rather than "tolerating" it.
And we need to quite tolerating "personal freedom" over societal protection, right down to the relationship level. A married couple produced this kid. Once they did that, they were in it, and the marriage, for life. That included the duty not to make dumb ass decisions for their child, like changing Robert's name to Robin.
Part 5. What will happen?
Absolutely nothing.
People on the right will argue its not the guns, it's the sick society. People on the left will argue that the society isn't sick, except for the guns, and the guns are all of the problem.
Nothing, therefore, will occur.
Well, maybe.
If anything occurs, it'll be that Dementia Don will use it as an excuse to send the National Guard into Minneapolis.
Footnotes
1. His name was Robert, not "Robin". The free use of female names for men afflicted by this condition and the press use of "she" for what is properly he, is part of the problem.
2 By gender confusion, I"m referring to Gender Dysphoria, or whatever people are calling it, not homosexuality. Homosexuals don't fit into this discussion at all. For one thing, homosexuals are not confused about what gender they are.
3. This does not advocate for license, although some men argue that it does. Inclinations are not a pass for immorality.
Anyhow, I'd note that even honest men in cebate professions acknowledge this. Fr. Joseph Krupp, the podcaster, frequently notes having a crush, for example, on Rachel Weisz.
4. Again, some women grow violent, but its a minority and, when it occurs, tends to be accompanied by something else. There are exceptions.
5. I don't know all of the details of his personal life, of course, but that was inexcusable on his mother's part. I'll note, however, that by this time his parents were divorced and no woman is capable of raising children completely on her own. Again, I don't know what was going on, but this screams either extreme "progressive" views, or a mostly absent father, or extreme fatigue.
6. I didn't even know that there were Catholic military schools.
Military schools have always been institutions for troubled boys, and this suggests that there was an attempt to put him in a masculine atmosphere and hopefully straighten him out. The school had both a religious base and a military nature. Both of his parents must have participated in this.
7. The modern world fully at work. People move for work, careers, etc., with the result that nuclear families basically explode, nuclear bomb style. People more and more are raised in families that are the immediate parental unit, or just one parent, that start to disintegrate the moment children turn 18. This is not natural, and is part of the problem.
8. I don't know of course, but I'd guess that in order to be a poor employee at a cannabis dispensary, you have to be a really poor employee. There are bars with bartenders who don't drink, but I bet there aren't any dispensaries with employees that aren't using.
The impacts of marijuana use are very poorly understood, but as it becomes more and more legal, that there are negative psychological impacts for long term and chronic use is pretty clear.
9. Contrary to widespread belief, not only Catholicism prohibits divorce. The Anglican Communion does not either, and at that time particularly did not tolerate it. Divorce occurred, but it was not common.
Also, and we've touched on it before, the United States at the time of its founding was a Christian nation. It was a Protestant Christian nation, but a Christian nation. Protestants of the 19th Century would not recognize many Protestant denominations today at all, even if they are theoretically the same. A 1790s Episcopalian, for example, would be horrified by many Episcopalian congregations today. In contrast, a Catholic or Orthodox person would find the churches pretty recognizable, save for the languages used for services.